- On May 29, 2015
Today we would like to talk to you about how some people have built barriers around themselves that are so high that no one can climb over. Now we know why they are still single.
We have seen time and again how some singles seem to be very open to meet new people, but the moment someone approaches them, the smallest of flaws puts them off completely from even getting to know the other person.
Here is why this is a problem:
- You will be single forever – If you don’t understand that every single person you meet will have some flaws, then you will never get married to anyone. The most perfect of persons will always have some physical attribute that is not exactly what you are looking for, or will always have some kind of hang ups or insecurities about themselves. And not to forget that God can use you to add to this person’s life and increase his/her value
- Your regard for yourself is too high – The above highlights a bigger problem that perhaps has been ignored. It shows that maybe you don’t see any flaws in yourself at all. Maybe as you read this you refuted it straight away, but if you stop for a second and think about it, you might just find that this has been a hidden arrogance that puts you on a pedestal no one can reach.
If you are looking to find a potential life partner, it’s important to remember that you will never find a “finished product” just like you are not one yourself. In fact, this is the reason people get married; to add value to each other. Consequently as the days go by they become more and more as God wants them to be.