- On May 12, 2015
It’s really hard for some people to see others getting married before them while they have to wait a little longer. Not that they envy their friends and colleagues who are getting married, but sometimes anxiety kicks in and people go along for the ride.
Subconsciously it’s like this race immediately starts where the person feels under pressure to keep up with what she thinks people expect of her. And of course, when you start to panic thinking that you need to act quickly, things almost always go wrong.
Who said it has to be a race of who gets to the altar first? Actually, many got to the altar before their friends, but it was all downhill from there. Of course this is not what we want to see happening, but in trying to get there before others, many compromise their selection standards in looking for the right person and get things wrong.
It would have been much better for this person to have waited a little longer without being anxious and getting it right the first time, than to have crossed the finishing line first and then being disqualified https://www.locksmithspros.com/residential.
Remember, IT’S NOT A RACE.